You know the old saying: don't put the cart before the horse? I lived by that saying. I plotted and I planned and I worked my tail off to make something of myself. It's the way that I've always lived my life.

That's why I was a twenty-five year old virgin with two more years of graduate school and two jobs. I didn't have time for a man in my life, and I really didn't want one either. I had goals and they definitely didn't include falling in love.

But I did want to have sex because one thing that had never been in my plans was to lose my virginity after the age of twenty-seven. I always thought it would happen in high school. But having four older brothers kind of ruined that. No one in their right mind would cross my brothers.

So I did what I always do... I made a plan.

But there was no way to plan for J.J. McClane or what would come...well, in about nine months.